以妙观察智解开烦恼与惑网（十七）|Resolve the Net of Delusion with the ...

其实我们所贪执的人身也是由各种人体细胞聚集而成的，比如你所贪著的某人的大眼睛，实际上也就是由晶状体、睫状肌、角膜等物质所组成的，如此分析之后，人身中也就不存在欢喜心的对境了。

在此我们再回过头来分析一下能贪执的心，如一个男人爱上某女人而结为夫妻，开始时认为她青春美丽，不可方物，但过一段时间后，他就再不愿意看到自己的妻子，当初他非常贪爱的妻子现在已经毫无吸引人之处，于是他又开始追求别的女人了。实际上以前他所钟爱的女人，与今天他所讨厌的妻子同为一人，根本就无有任何差别。

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In fact, bodies that we desire are composed of various human cells. For example, someone's big eyes that you cling to are actually make up of crystalline lens, ciliary muscle, cornea and other substances. Upon analysis, there is not any objects of joy in human bodies.

Then let's analyze the heart of attachment. For example, a man falls in love with a woman and marries her. At first, he thinks she is incomparably beautiful and young. However, after a while he is unwilling to see his wife. The wife whom he used to cling to is not attractive any more. And the man starts to chase other women. In fact, the wife he used to love is the same as the woman he dislikes now; there is no difference at all. 

By choeje (King of Dharma) Jigme Phuntsok Rinpoche